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April 8, 2010
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July 3, 2009I love you are three little words which are frequently placed together to express a feeling. Nothing more. All too often when people say “I love you,” the receiver of the words forgets it means nothing more. “I love you” is a thought to mean “I want to spend the rest of my life with you,” “Let’s get married,” and “I love only you.” It doesn’t. It expresses a feeling.
I love you doesn’t mean that you’ll be compatible together in a relationship. You could love someone very dearly, but it doesn’t mean you’re “right” for one another. You could have very different views on politics/ the way to live life/ where to live/ music, and still love each other. People seem to have forgotten that it’s possible and more likely to love someone you won’t get along with all the time.
It doesn’t mean they love only you. It’s possible — and easy — to love more than one person at once, although none will be in quite the same way. What is it about “I love you” which causes people to think it excludes the possibility of loving others? To find out if they do or not, you need to ask them, not take it for granted.
Of course, some people aren’t in touch with the feeling “I love you” expresses either, and yet still say it. Even worse is one person says it and means it, and the other says it merely to return the compliment. Returning the compliment immediately reduces any respect for the words “I love you,” and doesn’t leave much space for the feeling of love to grow later. It introduces what is usually the first big lie in the relationship, and what is a joining built on lies? Worthwhile? In this case, I love you doesn’t even mean “I love you.” Instead it means, “You’re nice, I don’t want to hurt you” [which they are by lying], or “I want to have sex with you, so I’m pretending to love you.”
The words “I love you” have long ago become more than the sum of their parts, and this is part of the reason why so many relationships end up on the rocks. People are no longer either saying what they mean, or hearing what is meant.
Next time when you go to say the three words, remember what “I love you” doesn’t mean.
And remember - you can’t make someone love you, you can only make them say they do. 2 years agoCouldn’t have explained it any better! -
July 2, 2009
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2 years ago
Thick asian Annie Thao riding a BMX. Don’t get better than that in my book! >_<
bobs you’re uncle: haha.. right when i wanted to get into the BMXin’ whoa!
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2 years agoMacBook Transforms into a spaceship, see it to believe it! (via gizmowatch)
THIS IS SICK!
bobs your uncle: this was awesome!! i’d be pist if my notebook did that .. cause money just flew away .. but almost worth seeing if it did happen hahaha
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June 27, 2009
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June 22, 2009
car jacking attemp.
well my friend said it best so i’ll let him explain it
words by “the Chronicles: stickydiljoe”
“Oh one more thing. I came home today to news that my boy Billy (with the Laguna Seca Blue IS300) was jumped when two guys tried to take his M3 from him. Pretty fucked up world we live in when a guy can’t even get a burrito without some stupid shit happening to him. What a shame. Not like the guy is a pushover either, I mean, he trains MMA and isn’t exactly a small guy. Shit just ain’t fair when it’s 2-on-1 and people are sucker-punching you and shit. The good news is that he’s okay and left with only a couple bruises. Luckily they didn’t take his car and just took off. You always hear people on the net talking shit about how we don’t drive our cars and how we just garage them. Well, what the fuck do you expect? We can’t even go out and get some food without some motherfuckers trying to take our shit from us. Nevermind car theft, how about getting straight car-jacked? Oh and yes, he still got his burrito by the way. That’s Billy for ya. Nothing can stop him from getting his burrito, even when faced with tremendous adversity. Keep your head up son….Crazy fucking world I tell ya….”well said my friend. well said! thank you .
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had a long night.. first song i hear when i wake up
Limp Bizkit:
it’s just one of those days, you don’t wanna wake up everything is fucked everybody sucks, you don’t really know why / but you wanna justify ripping someones head off. you human contact and if you interact your life is on contract .. your best bet is stay away . mutha fucka
i’ll follow up with the story in a few. don’t feel like writing
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June 4, 2009
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hahaha„ this is hilarious!! well good to know she’s legal!! more girls need to do this!!
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June 3, 2009
this was an awesome video that i had to share!
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May 29, 2009
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Transformer flash drives!!! Cool!! found this and thought i wouldn’t mind getting one maybe a different character. It’s definitely a flash back to the old school Transformers. Maybe with the movie Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen coming out a few more will pop up!
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May 24, 2009
memorial day weekend..
i got nada. LOL .. nothing to share.. it’s been a pretty slow weekend. Hope you enjoy the weekend.
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